The Wedding Diary 2012 结婚那件事

today i woke up at 7.25am.
then i prepared myself and took bus to Wangsa Maju because i had missed a U34 Rapid KL bus that can direct go to Ampang Point.
therefore i just took the LRT to Jelatek station and try another way that walk further a bit to take bus because i believe the taxi fare of around RM5 to my destination was not very worth.
well, it was quite okay when i choose this new route and it just cost me RM1 to reach the same destination but the disadvantage is need walk around 15 minutes to reach there.
i reached my working place at early a bit 10 minutes and started to work.
actually i know my job might looks easy but the thing that make me "stress" was to think on new creative marketing idea to attract more customer.

therefore throughout the whole morning i just visited some famous website to get some idea which is just like i do at home every time research this and that information where the difference is i get paid here although having more stress than staying at home.
around 1pm i went to have lunch with my colleague and i feel happy because i feel myself that have some improvement where i start to be the "topic opener".
after back to my working place, i start to write some idea and submit a simple business proposal of a topic to the boss.
it seems that it suite his "taste" but wanted more on the ways to improve website traffic on this coming Monday business proposal.
on the other hand, i was happy when solved a simple thing on the Fan Page and get praised.

honestly, i did feel what i study in Tarc as e-commerce does not have further explain much how to use it online advertising although they did teach a bit but it is all the basic common terms such as we know use Google Ads, Facebook, SEO, affiliate marketing, backlinks, social networks sites and others to promote or increase traffic to website.
however, in school we did not learn how much the cost of using the sites, what is the best way of using SEO keywords, how to make a affiliate banner and others.
therefore this all of things need to learn and research yourself instead of learning it at Tarc.
so i just feel that my boss expect me to know all these things and ways but luckily i did learn and research a bit during my free time last time.
somehow i just feel my job is more focus on online marketing instead of just normal marketing.

when reach 6pm, i feel to go back but my boss ask me to have some further discussion again.
this time is with another boss that he usually meeting after work.
seriously just feel stress when he say "he wanted to be Malaysia top 100 most visited website and don't care you use what method, as long as you can bring more traffic to the new established website" in a short period of time.
well, i just feel there is no way to become very successful in a short time unless you are very talented and i don't think i am one of it.
actually i did have a selfish mind that i wish i can create my own similar website but ownself don't have much skills and just can "build others people" dream for now.
overall i feel marketing job was all about strategies and how to think out of a box.

finally i make a move from the office at 7.40pm and decided to take taxi.
well, i did saw many Korean young guy aged around 16~18++ waiting taxi and they was quite handsome and yesterday also saw some Korean "leng lui" but did not mention because my working area was known as Korean village which make me think of "her".
after about 10 minutes on the taxi, it seems that the taxi did not move much and it had cost almost RM10 (normal RM5) to Jelatek.then i check my phone GPS and it was only 1/5 of movement because traffic very jam.
therefore i ask the taxi to drop me and walked to the LRT station as picture below.it has taken me almost 25 minutes of walk and the weather still have tiny rain.
somehow i feel myself like to "torture" myself to encounter difficult things.

the most valuable lesson from the difficulties i face was never took taxi back Jelatek around 7pm-8pm++ because it might cost until RM30++ (normal RM5) because the traffic was over jammed around the area.
maybe is because last time i just enjoy to "spend money" but now everything like need to count wisely before spending.

the things that make me "strong" in mentally is just by telling myself that "you see, your friends sure laugh at you if you tell them that i you so fast give up when facing this small little things?"
during the time at trains, i just feel so tired and barely to think anythings.
around 8.40pm i reached Wangsa Maju and a friend phoned me whether want to watch movie and i have accepted.

therefore i went to have my dinner at Kopitiam Desa to have the noodle with the "Laici Tofu" as usual while waiting him.
finally we reach Wangsa Walk at 9.30pm although the movie time start at 9.20pm.
the movie that we watch was "The Wedding Diary 2012" (结婚那件事).
below was the synopsis of the movie.
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The Wedding Diary highlights disparities between the bride's and groom's families, from wealth levels to social differences between Singaporeans and Malaysians with its divergent Hokkien and Cantonese cultures. To please his future in-laws, the groom Daniel agrees to hold an extravagant dinner banquet in Singapore. On the wedding day, Daniel is dismayed the angpow money given by guests which he plans to use to foot the bill goes missing...
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the scene that i saw when going in the TGV cinema already about the proposal of "Ah Niu" with a ring flower to the girl.
therefore i not sure what i had missed on the beginning of the movie.
i feel that perhaps a failed relation at beginning can make the relationship more stronger when they was back together again.
the most meaningful that i learn was "we need to be satisfied on what we have" in order to be in happy although money does play an important role in relationship.
actually i did feel that i was like the "Ah Niu" because i was quite naive at first but encounter more things when heard many story and i still a virgin. (haha =D)
the only things that make me annoyed was the "annoying music" throughout the whole movie because it just like spoiled music being played.

overall i would rate this movie as 4.5 out of 5 stars for the story line.
you can have a look on its trailer at the link >>> Here.
honestly, before watching this movie, i was having a very negative mindset to blog today but luckily get positive back by being satisfied when i treat my difficulties as new experience.
after that, i was so "rush for toilet" but all of the toilet at the shopping has closed after the movie where make me no choice "endure" it until reach home.
i reached my home at 11pm and went to quickly listen to one of my favourite radio program which is 大城心事.

anyways, i will listen back tomorrow of the story i missed and thanks to Alex for upload as below.

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第1位，啊May，28岁，和男友恋爱1年多，和男友谈结婚的事，男友觉得目前不适合结婚，她现在很烦恼。>>> Here.

第2位，Tiger，像男生的女生，之前有打过来的，现在和她男友分开了。>>> Here.

第3位，啊伟，2个星期打过来的，喜欢男人的小男生，现在对那个他爱的人爱得更深，无法入眠。 >>> Here.

第4位，啊萍，感情问题，结婚15年，他老公外遇4-5次，去年被抓包，和他表妹偷情，过后又和别的女人。>>> Here.

第5位，啊Ken，想问一个很可爱的问题，怎样令到一个人节省点用钱。>>> Here.

第6位，啊Ann，感情问题，在一起7年，很疼爱她，但是她觉得大家不合适。>>> Here.

第7位，啊华，家庭问题，结婚2年，换了保险工作，工作收入不稳定，现在自己一个般出来了，但是还没离婚。 >>> Here.

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after 1am, i just started to updated my blog and while i almost finish this post at 1.50am, a housemate saw me and we have some chat.

somehow i just feel myself was overloaded with his information.

his sharing information can from becoming own boss, how to smuggle cigarette from Indonesia (cost RM4 sell for RM9), those political, bribery issue, working at foreign country "black things" and get linked with many things that i suddenly remember.

one of it was about i understand what my boss means that "don't urge your boss to give some things" in an efficient because coming out work, we need to see people face.

besides, it also reminds me back some senior talks about prostitution things in Genting which about "very beautiful + price cheap".

his advice to me was first we need to know "how to be a people", then look on to any opportunity and grab it.

lastly, the most important things for him is to have many friends because you can know a lot of market information.

anyways, our conversation seems was quite long until 4.10am.

honestly, looking at this matter, i did feel a little down when asking myself where my friends?

sometime it was just because of some words we use can change the things that happening around us.

in conclusion, i feel the movie was quite right again where when you are satisfied, you will eventually be happy.

why i stayed up so late is because i afraid i might forget all the information that get today when i awakens in the morning.

seriously this post was too long because too much information received in a day.

at last, hopefully can face this world more positive mind although my actual feeling was not very positive but i believe that posting positive things somehow might change a little of my life.

=D